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She believed jumping in the frozen lake was dangerous — Why No To fulfill goals

Tricks to avoid hold over to-dos and achieve your goals

2 min readDec 13, 2021

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So, she thought it seems too cool and my body will be frozen immediately I get in, and she never tried it, the truth — the water in the lake was warm.

Jumping in the unknown is always a treat for the known just because all things that you assume knowing are part of the secure universe of your life, a secure place where the conscious says — I’ve been working a long time ago to make it “Real” so I don’t deserve any unknown came to break all I did. At this stage the confront between new things you want to try and the pre-filled behaviors inside you; feels like that moment when you are in front of the lake and don’t jump.

The decision for jumping or not to the unknown is preceded by a purpose that works as fuel in our daily routines and long-term goals success.

Sitting down and reviewing the weak legs that refuse to jump is not an easy task, but instead of it is necessary if you are committed to the achievement of your goals, so the worst thing that gonna happen (it’s a personal essay) is to felt in the worst feeling that I know that is — If I had made it, what would happen? , honestly, it doesn’t feel well and nurtures anxious behaviors.

Once you choose then be brave and fill your weakness with a real commitment to yourself, the next experiences change to faith, strength, and commitment take force to help you in the success of your new adventure.

All of us have been staying in front of the lake, I must admit writing here had meant the lake for me, and now I choose to try it with true commitment, there is another kind of goal that is yours, but the most important thing is we aren’t alone in the bravery journal to jumping in our lakes.

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10+ years as System Engineer and currently Success Coach thoroughly enjoy writing about self-development topics and how to pursue life’s goals